Second, I am not a parent yet.
But I would like to make some statements on things that I heard and saw these days.
I strongly disagree with those childish kids' educations that childish adults gave.
Well, I guess people knew that my aunt passed away like three days ago.
I helped with the funeral so I met up with family members of course.
I realized a lot from the adults' conversation, their behaviors, and I actually got bashed by them.
My aunt has two daughters, so yeah my cousins then.
They're now in secondary school, From 5 and Form 1.
My second elder uncle told my aunt's husband to look after the kids.
What he suggested my aunt's husband to do was, watch the kids out, watch their friends, fetch them to everywhere they go, know all their friends, limit their entertainment (keeping away all the handphones and no computer allowed) and etc.
They all thought that my cousins are in a state where no one will take care of them like before and they will accept negative influences easily.
So this is what happened.
Now let me explain the whole situation and tell out my thought.
My aunt is a very strict mom, she never give her kids freedom when she's still alive.
She wants the kids to study, study and study, ONLY.
Well, they're from Kuan Seng high school, as you guys know that they started to accept male students like years ago.
I met them back three days ago, I realized that they changed a lot.
The elder one, in her mind there's only boyfriend, cyber cafe, sungei wang? times square? everything that youngster will do lah.
To her, the world is so new, everything is so fresh.
She skipped tuitions without her mom knowing when her mom was sick (confirmed cancer final stage like months ago). She had loads of boyfriends, and she hang out with friends a lot.
From our view, generally it seems bad, like really bad.
And so my uncle suggested to watch them out even more, kept them on the so called right pathway.
I don't think so.
What makes her like this was all because of her parents.
Her mom and dad forced her too much, they made her live in the hostel, no freedom no nothing.
They took away the sim cards she bought, stopped her from contacting with friends.
To her, now is the beginning of her journey. She don't know what's KL like before, seriously she only walked around the school compounds everyday.
I did not say that her changes are positive or nothing's wrong.
But I know things will become worse if her dad watch her out more from now on.
I knew it because I rebelled A LOT when I was Form 1 something.
She's enjoying the real world, if you tie her up again after all these, she will only become a real rebellious girl.
Yes she played a lot starting on this year, but her results are the best among classmates.
Yes she seemed changing into a bad kid now, but don't forget, she go temple for Buddhism studies every weekend.
We all watched them grow up, can't we trust them a little bit more?
She is not a bad kid, kids from Chan family never turns bad. We all grew up under my grandpa, we are already good when we're young kids, this is the original us, good persons and smart people.
NO ONE trust her. How funny was that.
Everyone was like telling their dad to control them more! Crazy much? How can you lock a 17 years old teen?!
Loosing a mom will not make a 17 years old teen change rapidly.
She is already a 17, she can think and what she acted during the funeral proven that she know how to think.
She never cry, people commented that she's not a good daughter, how can a daughter not feeling sad when her mom passed away?
She replied only one sentence 'When I cry everyone will tell me not to be sad, cheer up; but when I'm not crying people judge me as unfilial, so what now? My mom told me not to cry if the day comes, I will move on with my life then.'
Adults are all pwned by this 17 years old teen. How shallow.
My mom's siblings, three brothers and one sister (whom just passed away).
Her brothers were teasing me and scolding my mom during the whole discussion.
They said my mom is a failure because she never control me.
Whenever I have an outing or whatever she never check my friends, never care whether they're good or bad.
During the rebellious period, I disagreed much with my mom, but my mom never use her position as mom to control me, not even scolding a word.
Now, am I a bad girl?
It was only a rebellion period, people learns everyday.
I am happy and thankful that my mom trusted me. She never ask about my friends because she believe that I will not become a bad girl.
I am lucky to have such mom, I hated her because of this broken family that she gave, but after years now I understood that she did more than anyone else out there.
After I heard the adults' conversation yesterday night. I was pissed, but I never say out a word.
I will take care of my cousins alright? I don't need you smartass adults to purposely check her friends or limit her activities. Fuck those off. Things will only become worse BECAUSE, I WAS ONCE A PERSON LIKE HER. I KNOW WHAT WILL HAPPEN IF YOU GUYS REALLY TAKE THOSE STEPS.
Let her be lah, after a period she will become matured and behave good. It wont take long.
Next, you fucking smartass adults, to my uncles. All three uncles.
STOP JUDGING ME PLEASE AND THANK YOU.
I have my own life, you guys are not my parents and I am not a Chan, I am CHUNG.
Who cares whether my family can afford TOA fees or not. I will fight for scholarships myself okay?
Who are you guys to say 'You're immature, you should've look at your mom's condition, she's so old and don't have much money, why don't you just go MMU or somewhere cheaper'
I don't fucking need your comments, if my mom support my decision meaning I will move on. You guys have no rights to comment.
To my third uncle, the youngest one.
Yes I know you studied architecture. I asked you regarding Perspective Studies and I am thankful much for you made me understood the differences between one vanishing point and two.
I understands that you usually used two points only since you're constructing plans for buildings. It's different to us because we're creating sceneries.
But don't fucking judge The One Academy! Who are you to say 'There's no 3 vanishing points la, tak logic one, quit your school lah, useless lecturer, don't know how to teach'
I did not reply because I respect you as my uncle.
In fact there are three four five even six vanishing points existing in this world, there's a lot of references in the net, no doubt for that.
Don't fucking judge my level because of your shallowness.
Who say I have no logics? Yes my beloved eldest uncle? WHO ARE YOU TO SAY I'M STUPID?!
I know you always thinks that MMU is the best school, I know you always thinks that your daughter did good job in this field and I am no one compared to her.
But hello, I am here to learn about Digital Animation, not Multimedia. Clear?
I will have better life than her, I will prove that the statement 'Students from TOA are all copycats' is wrong.
I WILL PROVE IT. DON'T JUDGE ME BEFORE I EVEN GRADUATE!
I am not a stupid, don't compare your daughter with me. Because I haven't learn everything yet, who knows that I will fail or not? I have enough confidence to beat her. At least beat her salary that you're SHO FKING PROUD WITH.
Do not look down at me and my mom, be good brothers of my mom.
Yes we are not as rich as you guys do, but we have more dignities than anyone of you guys.
When you guys' business was down or whatever, you guys borrowed money from my mom.
My mom fed me porridge ONLY when I was kid everyday because you guys' mom (my grandma) forced the daughter to help the brothers.
Yes my grandma love sons more than daughters, but my mom never complain a thing.
She respected her mom and gave whatever she has just to help you guys with new business or new house.
After I've started college my mom asked you guys to pay back her money that's all, but who actually paid her back willingly? We even need to spam calls and some more you guys acted like fucktard when signing the cheque.
Those money are what you guys owed, it is a need to pay back, we're not borrowing money from anyone of you okay?
You have have no right to look down at us, without my mom there's no big houses for you.
Do not say I'm stupid, my mom never say I am one so you guys should just fk off and mind your own business.
At least, I don't waste money on two colleges and ended up not working in the same subject like someone's daughter did lah.
Shaddup people, I'm turning 18 in a month time and I will have no mercy when we next meet.
You guys love to follow law right? Everything has to be law by law yeah, okay I will play with you guys.
Respects and status are different things, mind your words please UNCLES, I'm not someone like my mom, remember that.
People who disrespects my mom should ended up receiving bad treatments from kids. The God is watching.
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